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Digital Seminar

The High-Conflict Couple


Average Rating:
   729
Faculty:
George Faller, MS, LMFT
Duration:
4 Hours 31 Minutes
Format:
Audio and Video
Copyright:
Mar 20, 2025
Product Code:
NOS096435
Media Type:
Digital Seminar

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Description

Working with highly escalated couples and families can be scary and exhausting. Often, our best attempts at creating positive change fall flat. Sometimes, us trying to guide sessions into a safe zone even leads to more entrenched silence or further criticism. When negative cycles take over, and we find ourselves faced with shut-down withdrawers and hostile pursuers, how do we shift them out of reactivity and into responsiveness? This workshop draws on proven interventions from Emotionally Focused Therapy and the neuroscience of human attachment to help you navigate the recurring blocks and common triggers therapists encounter in couples and family work. You’ll walk away with new tools that will empower you to shift the reactivity and mis-attunement that so often derails work with highly escalated partners and families. You’ll discover how to: 

  • Help clients shift from blaming their partner to sharing their vulnerability  

  • Transform negative cycles of interaction into positive cycles of responsiveness 

  • Help partners to recognize and put words to their inner experiences  

  • Immediately incorporate powerful techniques to reduce client reactivity and begin the process of healing 

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Prior to a career in the field of mental health, George Faller, MS, LMFT spent 20 years as a NYC Firefighter and NYC Police Officer. His experience as a FDNY Peer Counselor, particularly following the events of 9/11, sparked his passion to help those impacted by trauma.

He is a certified trainer/supervisor/therapist in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and founder of the New York Center for Emotionally Focused therapy where he serves as president. He is a supervisor with the American Association for Marriage & Family Therapy (AAMFT) and teaches classes at the Ackerman Institute for the Family in Manhattan. He is a licensed marriage & family therapist currently practicing in Connecticut and New York. George is the director of training at the Greenwich Center for Hope & Renewal in Connecticut and is on board of the Porter Cason Institute at Tulane University in New Orleans.

George brings a unique and varied experience to his practice. Whether he is providing marriage therapy to Wall Street executives, leading a conference for the United States Military or equipping therapists from around the globe, his ability to inspire is far-reaching. George is also committed to bringing EFT to underprivileged populations and pushing the leading edge of effective therapy.

George is the coauthor of the books True Connection, Sacred Stress, and Emotionally Focused Family Therapy and cohost of podcast Foreplay Radio. For more information go to www.georgefaller.com and checkout www.successinvulnerability.com


Speaker Disclosures:
Financial: George Faller is the Director of Training for the Center For Hope & Renewal, and the President of the New York Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy. He is the co-host of the ForePlay Radio Podcast, leader of Success in Vulnerability, and adjunct professor at the Ackerman Institute for the Family. George receives a speaking honorarium and recording royalties from PESI, Inc. He has no relevant financial relationships with ineligible organizations.
Non-financial: George Faller has no relevant non-financial relationships.

 


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Objectives

  1. Analyze the development and maintenance of couples’ conflict through the lens of attachment theory. 

  1. Describe an intervention for reducing reactivity in session  

  1. Identify and address common therapeutic impasses that occur in couple's therapy 

  1. Summarize a method for assessing a couple’s progress in collaboratively addressing and overcoming negative interaction cycles. 

  1. Describe the function of protective strategies that create negative cycles. 

  1. Identify the positive cycle of responsiveness to replace the escalated, negative cycle. 

Outline

What causes high distress in couples? 

Attachment theory and an overview of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) 

Helping couples de-escalate 

Going deeper with emotions 

Limitations of the research and potential risks 

Overview of the process of change – Tying it all together 

Target Audience

  • Counselors
  • Marriage and Family Therapists
  • Social Workers
  • Physicians 
  • Psychologists
  • Addiction Counselors

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